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Family mediator

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Family mediators help separating or divorcing couples to find agreement on practical matters without having to go to court.

Average salary (a year)

£25,000 Starter

to

£38,000 Experienced

Typical hours (a week)

24 to 37

You could work

evenings / weekends attending events or appointments

How to become

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How to become

You can get into this job through:

  • a university course
  • volunteering
  • applying directly
  • training with a professional association

University

You can do a higher national diploma, degree or postgraduate award to get some of the skills you need for this job.

Relevant subjects include:

  • social work
  • law
  • counselling
  • psychology
  • psychotherapy
  • education

After university, you can take an accredited training programme, approved by the Family Mediation Council.

Training programmes include:

  • a taught course
  • practical experience
  • support to build a portfolio

Programmes are a mix of in-person and online training.

As well as a higher education qualification, training providers may expect you to have experience of dealing with conflict and relationship management.

Entry requirements

You'll usually need:

  • between 1 and 3 A levels, or equivalent, for a higher national diploma or degree
  • a degree in a relevant subject for postgraduate study

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Volunteering

Volunteering to work with families can help when you come to apply for training courses. You can volunteer with:

Direct Application

You can apply for a job as a trainee family mediator if you have a higher education qualification and relevant experience in an area, such as law, social work or counselling.

When you apply, you'll need to show you have the right personal qualities and skills to be a family mediator.

Other Routes

You may be able to train with a professional association.

Each association sets their own criteria to join but most will expect you to have experience from paid work or volunteering.

Professional associations that offer training include:

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Career tips

Many people become a family mediator as a second career. Employers value life experience and evidence of supporting people with challenging problems.

Many mediators work part time or on a sessional basis. Advertised pay rates may be listed as full-time equivalent (FTE). Actual pay will depend on the number of hours worked.

Further information

You can get more advice about working in family mediation from the Family Mediation Council.

What it takes

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What it takes

Skills and knowledge

You'll need:

  • sensitivity and understanding
  • active listening skills
  • excellent verbal communication skills
  • persuading and negotiating skills
  • patience and the ability to remain calm in stressful situations
  • to be thorough and pay attention to detail
  • knowledge of psychology
  • knowledge and understanding of society and cultures
  • to be able to use a computer and the main software packages competently

Restrictions and Requirements

You'll need to:

What you’ll do

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What you'll do

Day-to-day tasks

As a family mediator, you could:

  • listen to your clients' situation and explain how you can help
  • set ground rules so clients can talk to each other fairly and respectfully
  • discuss issues such as access to children, property and finances
  • summarise agreements in writing
  • maintain impartiality and confidentiality
  • keep accurate records of discussions
  • stay up to date with family law and mediation techniques
  • work with solicitors and courts when necessary

Working environment

You could work in an office.

Your working environment may be emotionally demanding.

Career path and progression

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Career path and progression

With experience, you could:

  • train and mentor new mediators
  • manage a team of mediators
  • set up your own family mediation business
  • use your skills to move into careers, like social work, counselling or legal advice

Current opportunities

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Current opportunities

Apprenticeships In England

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Courses In England

Access to HE Diploma (Social Work) - ELearning

  • Provider: EAST SUSSEX COLLEGE GROUP
  • Start date: 07 December 2026
  • Location: Not known

Access to HE Diploma (Social Work)

  • Provider: HEART OF YORKSHIRE EDUCATION GROUP
  • Start date: Flexible
  • Location: Not known

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